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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 16:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So my weight loss has stalled because I&#8217;ve become very frustrated with counting calories. I *always* feel hungry. If I exercise, I feel even more hungry. I don&#8217;t want to, and can&#8217;t exercise everyday &#8211; but that would probably be the only way to &#8220;buy back&#8221; some extra calories so I can eat more than [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://theworkingmom.net/2012/03/27/a-new-day-a-new-plan/' addthis:title='A new day, a new plan '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So my weight loss has stalled because I&#8217;ve become very frustrated with counting calories. I *always* feel hungry. If I exercise, I feel even more hungry. I don&#8217;t want to, and can&#8217;t exercise everyday &#8211; but that would probably be the only way to &#8220;buy back&#8221; some extra calories so I can eat more than a sliver of what is already a healthy meal. I also can see that any time I eat bread or pasta, it screws things up. I had some success on South Beach and Atkins in the past. I know the theory behind those and it makes sense &#8211; but the rigidity of those plans is also daunting. This is a &#8220;lifestyle change&#8221; after all &#8211; and if that change means &#8220;You can never eat another piece of chocolate again&#8221; &#8211; or you can only have it once a month &#8211; well, that&#8217;s going to make that change really difficult to stick to. Additionally, on the weekends we&#8217;ll often get together with family for big dinners and trying to be on a &#8220;diet&#8221; when I&#8217;m with everyone &#8211; it&#8217;s not a lot of fun. Our get togethers always seems to revolve around food &#8211; there&#8217;s no escaping it. For example: We&#8217;ll get together with my brother for dinner &#8211; and he loves high quality wine and cheese &#8211; and he&#8217;s an AMAZING cook and makes gourmet-style AMAZING food. Seriously? You want me to eat some celery sticks while I watch everyone eat everything else? Not gonna work!!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.bigpinkcookie.com/">Christine</a> has been raving about the &#8220;<a href="http://fourhourbody.com/">4-Hour Body</a>&#8221; plan she&#8217;s been on, and sounds like she&#8217;s lost a decent amount of weight. About double what I&#8217;ve lost in half the time. Granted &#8211; if I had been able to STICK with my plan more precisely, we would have been closer to being even &#8211; but that&#8217;s the problem with my plan. Eating only 1200 calories a day, and not giving into hunger&#8230; it&#8217;s not sustainable. It&#8217;s how I ended up gaining all my weight back in the first place. I initially figured the Four Hour Body was just another Atkins or South Beach &#8211; but the one thing that drew my attention was the &#8220;Cheat Day&#8221;! The general idea here is that you follow the plan (which does not let you go hungry &#8211; but does restrict what your options are) 6 days a week. Then 1 day a week you reset your metabolism by having a cheat day. I know people are losing weight on this, but I have my doubts. If it does work, this would be awesome and would totally fit my lifestyle perfectly. The plan encourages eating the same meals repetitively &#8211; which would also work for me. I usually have the same breakfast every day and I could easily rotate the same 2 or 3 lunches every day too. For dinner I like to add variety &#8211; but that&#8217;s doable here too. And then for &#8220;cheat day&#8221; &#8211; that&#8217;s family day.</p>
<p>Since the calorie counting has just about run it&#8217;s course this time around, I&#8217;m ready to try something new &#8211; so we&#8217;ll see how it goes. So far my plan for breakfast is 2 hard-boiled (organic) eggs, with black beans and (no sugar added) salsa. (FYI &#8211; <a href="http://www.greenmountaingringo.com/">Green Mountain Gringo Salsa</a> is my absolute favorite!! Not only does it not have sugar added &#8211; it tastes AWESOME!!!! I may also add Canadian or standard bacon every now and then.) Lunch for now is bean salad &#8211; This recipe in particular was really good: <a href="http://www.findingmyfitness.com/2011/04/what-to-eat-5-bean-salad/">5 Bean Salad</a> &#8211; I added some canned mushrooms to that recipe. I&#8217;m also thinking that hearts of palm and/or artichoke hearts might be good in there too! (I believe both should be good on this plan) I&#8217;ll probably also vary it to by adding either some cooked turkey breast or tuna fish on occasion.</p>
<p>For dinner last night I made this <a href="http://www.4hourrecipes.com/recipe/chicken-fried-faux-rice/">Chicken Fried Faux-Rice</a>. OMG. I loved loved loved it. (I even got Zach to eat a small bowl of it &#8211; with only a minor battle! Probably the most fiber he&#8217;s had all year!) Tonight &#8211; I&#8217;ll be making this recipe: <a href="http://www.findingmyfitness.com/2010/12/recipe-book-egg-foo-yung/">Egg Foo Young</a>. Wednesday will be this recipe: <a href="http://www.4hourrecipes.com/recipe/black-bean-salsa-and-chicken/">Black Bean Salsa and Chicken</a></p>
<p>The one thing I&#8217;m a little disappointed with is that on this plan, going completely vegetarian isn&#8217;t really possible. (Or at least it makes it really really difficult!!) Oh, that and Quinoa is on the &#8220;no&#8221; list. I did love Quinoa! I&#8217;m still trying to work in more beans and vegetables (and eggs) as the primary, reoccurring food so we&#8217;re not eating STEAK every night &#8211; and when we have meat &#8211; focus more on fish and chicken. Anyway, we&#8217;ll see how it goes&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Updates on life</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 19:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Been awhile since I dropped in here. My work has kept me crazy busy. I spoke at Evo Conference &#8211; spreading my love of all things WordPress. And&#8230; this past weekend we had to bring our puppy back to the breeder we got him from. I hadn&#8217;t posted much about him  &#8211; we were dealing [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://theworkingmom.net/2011/08/02/updates-on-life/' addthis:title='Updates on life '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Been awhile since I dropped in here. My <a href="http://stuartweb.net">work</a> has kept me crazy busy. I spoke at <a href="http://evoconference.com">Evo Conference</a> &#8211; spreading my love of all things WordPress. And&#8230; this past weekend we had to bring our puppy back to the breeder we got him from. <img src='http://theworkingmom.net/twm_wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I hadn&#8217;t posted much about him  &#8211; we were dealing with a lot. Aside from the normal craziness that is raising and housebreaking a puppy &#8211; he was not healthy from the beginning. He had an EXTREMELY sensitive stomach, and after several hundreds of dollars of various tests &#8211; no one could determine exactly why or what was wrong with him. We fed him plenty, but he remained skinny and the food he ate practically flew through one end and out the other so quickly.We finally found a food that he would somewhat tolerate &#8211; but it didn&#8217;t make things perfect. It was a grain and gluten free, single protein food that had to be rehydrated. Then he had a massive flare up and even that stopped working as well as it once did.</p>
<p>If that wasn&#8217;t enough to deal with, the real killer was his aggression. Within the first week of having him here, he growled and snapped at me at a way I&#8217;ve never seen a *normal <strong>puppy</strong>* do. It was bizarre. And no one really believed me that a PUPPY would show aggression like this. They said it was &#8220;posturing&#8221; not aggression. Ok&#8230; so we paid top dollar for a great trainer who whipped us into shape about how to behave and treat the puppy so that he would know we were alpha. We did this for months. The problem began to get worse, not better. He would be sitting in a room &#8211; no &#8220;triggers&#8221; near by (no food, no toys) &#8211; he wasn&#8217;t sleeping, he&#8217;d be wide awake &#8211; just hanging out &#8211; and my daughter who has always been very gentle with him and respectful of him, would come up to pet him &#8211; and for no reason at all he would growl at her. Then my husband &#8211; who SURELY he must see as ALPHA in our pack &#8211; would come up to him &#8211; and again, he would growl at him.</p>
<p>I spoke to another trainer, and they said with all his problems &#8211; since we had the option of bringing him back to the breeder &#8211; we should take it. This is not the right dog for our family.</p>
<p>Who knows, maybe he needed to be in a bigger house &#8211; or a bigger back yard &#8211; or he needs other dogs with him to keep him in line. Whatever it is &#8211; he didn&#8217;t belong with us. It broke our hearts &#8211; it wasn&#8217;t for lack of love that we brought him back. But I have a responsibility to my family and I have a responsibility to him. However, my family comes first and I was worried about the direction this was headed. I was worried that growl would very soon turn into something more disastrous. I&#8217;m glad he&#8217;s with the breeder &#8211; she&#8217;ll take good care of him. Maybe she&#8217;ll be able to determine the source of his issues &#8211; and then place him in a home that&#8217;s more appropriate.</p>
<p>In the meantime &#8211; we are once again trying to heal from the loss of a dog. Bad timing too. So close to my daughter&#8217;s birthday again when last year we had to <a title="A Good Friend Gone" href="http://theworkingmom.net/2010/08/18/a-good-friend-gone/">say goodbye to our other dog after 12 happy years</a>. And I am on the hunt again for a dog. This time I think we&#8217;re going to go with the same breed we had last time and that we are so in love with: a Cairn Terrier or Westie (West Highland Terrier).</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Feb 2011 23:42:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My kids have an obsession with cereal. The would eat it three times a day if I let them. They would pick out new ones to try each week if I let them. I&#8217;ve put down a restriction, though, that they can pick out ONE box of cereal to have. When it&#8217;s gone, they can [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://theworkingmom.net/2011/02/25/big-g-hot-wheels-giveaway/' addthis:title='Big G Hot Wheels Giveaway '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My kids have an obsession with cereal. The would eat it three times a day if I let them. They would pick out new ones to try each week if I let them. I&#8217;ve put down a restriction, though, that they can pick out <strong>ONE </strong>box of cereal to have. When it&#8217;s gone, they can pick out another one. But we only do this one a time&#8230; well normally. Then General Mills and Hot Wheels®, through MyBlogSpark, sent me a great big gift pack with 5 different boxes of cereals. If that wasn&#8217;t enough to get my kids jumping for joy, starting back on January 24th, included in each participating cereal box (Cheerios® 14 oz, Cinnamon Toast Crunch® 17 oz, Lucky Charms® 16 oz, Reese’s Puffs® 18 oz, and Cookie Crisp® 15.6 oz), is a custom-designed collectible Hot Wheels® pullback racer. And, each car contains a code to unlock an exciting online racing game.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2074" title="big g hot wheels" src="http://theworkingmom.net/twm_wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/big-g-hot-wheels-500x233.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="233" />I thought at first, maybe we&#8217;d try to still maintain some order in the house, and open and finish one before opening the next. Yeah right. The fact that each one contained a Hot Wheels car pretty much trampled that idea. They were all opened within a few days of each other. Lucky Charms was the first to actually be consumed, and I think second place will be tied between Cheerios and Resse&#8217;s Puffs. Cookie Crisp has been eaten like it&#8217;s dessert, and cinnamon toast crunch, although still a favorite around here, will probably finish last.</p>
<p>Both Zach and Rachel have been having a great time with the cars too. Racing them across the downstairs (how nice that we have wood floors in this new house).</p>
<h2>Giveaway</h2>
<p>If you would like to receive a similar gift pack, simply leave a comment on this post and tell me which of the group is your favorite cereal (Mine is definitely the Reese&#8217;s Puff. How can you go wrong turning candy into breakfast!) For additional entries (up to 1 additional entry awarded per day) just  tweet the following (and leave one comment on this post for each tweet)</p>
<p><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=GIVEAWAY%3A+Win+a+Big+G+%26+Hot+Wheels+Gift+Pack+http%3A%2F%2Fbit.ly%2FfnyG3a" target="_blank">GIVEAWAY: Win a Big G &amp; Hot Wheels Gift Pack http://bit.ly/fnyG3a</a></p>
<p>Contest ends March 4th, 2011 at 10pm PST. There is no purchase  necessary to enter the contest. I will be using random.org to choose the  winner. I’ll contact the winner via email, and he/she will have 48  hours to respond. After 48 hours, if I don’t receive a response, another  winner will be chosen.</p>
<p><em>Disclosure: General Mills and Hot Wheels® provided me with the free product, information, and giveaway through MyBlogSpark.</em></p>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok, enough bad stuff&#8230; I can&#8217;t just leave you with my last post up. I have to post something good. We decided to get a labradoodle puppy. The litter was born on Jan 20th. We still have to meet him to be sure (going to meet him in February &#8211; and they&#8217;ll be ready to [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://theworkingmom.net/2011/02/03/puppies/' addthis:title='Puppies '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, enough bad stuff&#8230; I can&#8217;t just leave you with my last post up. I have to post something good. We decided to get a labradoodle puppy. The litter was born on Jan 20th. We still have to meet him to be sure (going to meet him in February &#8211; and they&#8217;ll be ready to come home at the end of March) but we&#8217;re strongly leaning towards this guy:</p>
<p><a href="/twm_wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/024-2-e1296726219274.jpg" rel="lightbox[2030]"><img src="/twm_wp/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/024-2-300x225.jpg" alt="" title="#1 choc male" width="300" height="225" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2031" /></a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s going to be a hard decision though &#8211; ALL of those puppies from that litter are just ADORABLE.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Dec 2010 09:09:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tonight we finally get to spend the night in the new house. We are buried in boxes. I know we&#8217;ll get through it eventually, but it&#8217;s hard to get anything done. Just walking down the hallway, I&#8217;ll pass a box and feel compelled to open it and start putting stuff away &#8211; even though I [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://theworkingmom.net/2010/12/28/first-night/' addthis:title='First Night '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tonight we finally get to spend the night in the new house. We are buried in boxes. I know we&#8217;ll get through it eventually, but it&#8217;s hard to get anything done. Just walking down the hallway, I&#8217;ll pass a box and feel compelled to open it and start putting stuff away &#8211; even though I was on task to do something completely different.</p>
<p>It is pretty cool to finally be <strong>HOME</strong>. The challenge with this house will be storage &#8211; the house itself is quite a bit smaller than our last and there&#8217;s just less storage space overall. It&#8217;s going to take some creativity to solve the problem. Especially since we&#8217;re minus an office ROOM. My new office is now basically a hallway. So no office closet or anything like that. To compensate, I put a book shelf in the hallway with me, and bought some pretty baskets that fit on the shelves to put stuff in. So when you walk down the hallway, instead of seeing a bunch of office supplies hanging out everywhere, you just see the pretty baskets on the shelves.</p>
<p>Our kitchen has a lot of available space, but to make the most use of it, we&#8217;ll have to get some roll out shelves. Wherever I can put a piece of furniture that can hold things, that&#8217;s what we&#8217;re doing. And of course, we&#8217;re continuing to junk as much stuff as possible.</p>
<p>But even with all the boxes everywhere&#8230; I&#8217;m still so glad we&#8217;re done.</p>
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		<title>Ah, the fun never ends</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Dec 2010 08:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We were so close. Every night I close my eyes and pretend I&#8217;m sleeping in our new house. In our new room. I picture Rachel in her room. Zach in his room. BOTH in their own SEPARATE rooms down the hall from us &#8211; as opposed to sharing the same room like they have been [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://theworkingmom.net/2010/12/22/ah-the-fun-never-ends/' addthis:title='Ah, the fun never ends '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We were so close. Every night I close my eyes and pretend I&#8217;m sleeping in our new house. In our new room. I picture Rachel in her room. Zach in his room. BOTH in their own SEPARATE rooms down the hall from us &#8211; as opposed to sharing the same room like they have been the last two months. (I use the term &#8220;sharing&#8221; very loosely here. I&#8217;m not sure constant yelling at each other constitutes as &#8220;sharing&#8221;) The new house is within walking distance of town, so I picture us waking up Sunday morning, throwing on some clothes and walking to the pancake restaurant that&#8217;s around the corner from us. Most especially, I had really wanted to spend Christmas there. I was so sure things would be reasonably settled that I even planned on hosting a New Year&#8217;s Eve party. (Family members only &#8211; since they would understand/tolerate the fact we&#8217;d still be mostly in boxes)</p>
<p><em>It was so close I could taste it.</em></p>
<p>And now it&#8217;s gotten just a little bit further. Today was the first day we could go in the house, despite the fact that the sellers have been out of the place for a few days. We were told they wanted to hang onto it an extra few days to &#8220;clean.&#8221; <em>Riiiight. </em>When we moved out of our old house, I hired professional cleaners to come in and clean everything. They scrubbed the kitchen, bathroom, vacuumed every room and closet. Dusted. The place was probably cleaner than it ever was when we lived there. But in our case, despite telling us they were &#8220;cleaning&#8221; the place, I did not get the same treatment on our new house.</p>
<p>Hair all over the showers and tubs. Garbage on the floor in the closets and in some of the drawers. Paint we didn&#8217;t want, left in the garage. Dust piles on the baseboards. Dust and dirt throughout the floors. Hair even on the dirty counters in the kitchen. Toilets that haden&#8217;t been cleaned in at least a few weeks (they had that tell-tale mold ring where the water meets the bowl). But as grossed out as I was &#8211; that wasn&#8217;t even the worst of it. The worse was the strange pile of something that looked like sandy dirt in the corner of the master bedroom.</p>
<p>Termites.</p>
<p>We still have to get someone in there, inspect and officially confirm, but based on the pictures I&#8217;ve seen online, what we saw is EXACTLY the same as the examples of evidence of dry-wood termites. The house <em>was</em> inspected for termites and had &#8220;section 1 clearance&#8221; &#8211; which means that the inspector said there were no termites. I don&#8217;t understand how we can go from that assessment, to OBVIOUS evidence in such a short amount of time, and on the first day we can get the house. I have no idea what recourse we&#8217;ll have, and who will have to pay (we&#8217;re already strapped for cash &#8211; so I&#8217;m just afraid what this means for us)</p>
<p>On top of that, the painters came in today, but didn&#8217;t get as far on the job as we would have liked. Our movers are, at this very moment, making their way here and will be here on Thursday, but I have no guarantee that the painters will be done. (In fact, I&#8217;m 99% sure they WON&#8217;T be done and will still have paint and tarps everywhere) As well, I don&#8217;t know what we&#8217;ll do with our stuff if we have to have the place fumigated. Oh, and the New Years Eve party? I can pretty much forget about that &#8211; as well as having Christmas there. Until the place is cleaned and termites dealt with, I&#8217;m not staying there and we can&#8217;t unpack.</p>
<p>So&#8230; you can probably guess I&#8217;m just a WEE bit disappointed. And freaked out. And grossed out. And SERIOUSLY pissed off.</p>
<p>After this whole experience, I NEVER want to move again. Ever.</p>
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		<title>Febreze Home Collection Wooden Wick Candles Giveaway</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Dec 2010 23:40:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am significantly behind on reviews/giveaways. This one has been sitting on my desk for awhile. Before we move to our house and all my materials get officially lost, I thought it would be a good idea to post the giveaway. I&#8217;ll include their product information below, but I will say that I really do [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://theworkingmom.net/2010/12/15/febreze-home-collection-wooden-wick-candles-giveaway/' addthis:title='Febreze Home Collection Wooden Wick Candles Giveaway '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am significantly behind on reviews/giveaways. This one has been sitting on my desk for awhile. Before we move to our house and all my materials get officially lost, I thought it would be a good idea to post the giveaway. I&#8217;ll include their product information below, but I will say that I really do like these candles from Febreze. Right before we sold the house, I had the chance to try them out and I was really surprised to hear/see that the &#8220;wooden wicks&#8221; in the candle really do crackle. It&#8217;s a very relaxing sound. <img src='http://theworkingmom.net/twm_wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  And the candles smell really nice too. I&#8217;m looking forward to using them in our new house!</p>
<p>Here are the product details from the manufacturer:</p>
<p><em><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1930" title="Logo" src="http://theworkingmom.net/twm_wp/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Logo-276x300.jpg" alt="" width="276" height="300" />No fireplace, no problem. Breathe a sigh of relief because the new Febreze Home Collection Wooden Wick candle has you covered. Bring the calming crackle of a burning fire into your home anytime of year with 80 hours of “ahhhhhhhh.”</em></p>
<p><em>Available in nine premium scents, these tranquil candles are specially designed with a wooden wick to recreate the ambiance and sound of a crackling fire indoors. Offering a brilliant range of everyday fragrances, Febreze Home Collection Wooden Wick candles can help inspire a scent and design transformation in your home.</em></p>
<p><em>Be sure to look for Febreze Home Collection Wooden Wick candles at your local Walmart in fragrances like Green Tea Citrus, Pomegranate Mango, Cranberry Pear, Orange Honeycomb, Rosewood Plum and Willow Blossom; as well as seasonal scents that include Anjou Pear Spice, Gingersnap Vanilla, and Yumberry Sangria.</em></p>
<h2>Giveaway:</h2>
<p>I have one Walmart gift card to giveaway with $15 on it so you can try out these candles too! All that&#8217;s required is that you leave a comment telling me which scent you&#8217;re most likely to try. For an additional entry (up to one additional entry per day awarded) tweet the following &#8211; and leave a comment here for each tweet you make:</p>
<p><a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=Win+a+%2415+Walmart+gift+card+and+try+out+a+Febreze+Home+Collection+Wooden+Wick+Candle%21+http%3A%2F%2Fbit.ly%2FfLCGoV" target="_blank">Win a $15 Walmart gift card and try out a Febreze Home Collection Wooden Wick Candle! http://bit.ly/fLCGoV</a></p>
<p>Contest ends December  27th, 2010 at 10pm PST. There is no purchase necessary to enter the contest. I will be using random.org to choose the winner. I’ll contact the winner via email, and he/she will have 48 hours to respond. After 48 hours, if I don’t receive a response, another winner will be chosen.</p>
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<p>Disclosure: Febreze provided me with the Febreze Wooden Wick Candle Kit, information, and the $15 Walmart gift card to giveaway through MyBlogSpark.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Things have settled down from when I posted last. We got some resolution on some open and scary issues. With that resolution, we were able to make an offer on a really nice townhome, just outside of a really nice town (walking distance). Everyone has signed off on the paperwork, so now we just wait. [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://theworkingmom.net/2010/11/12/settling-in/' addthis:title='Settling in '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Things have settled down from when I posted last. We got some resolution on some open and scary issues. With that resolution, we were able to make an offer on a really nice townhome, just outside of a really nice town (walking distance). Everyone has signed off on the paperwork, so now we just wait. It will be about a month or two before we can actually start moving in, but at least we know a home is definitely within our future.</p>
<p>Living here will not be easy &#8211; and we&#8217;ll be carefully watching every penny we spend. We&#8217;ll be living on a tighter budget than we ever had. That is pretty scary to me &#8211; but we&#8217;ll do what we have to do.</p>
<p>Anyway &#8211; the last time I posted, things were pretty much at their worst. So I felt I had to update. The next few weeks will still be hectic &#8211; I have work that has piled up while we&#8217;ve been busy with house stuff. And then there&#8217;s Thanksgiving &#8211; we&#8217;ll be visiting Sam&#8217;s family back in Massachusetts. And then right after that is Hanukkah&#8230; then Christmas&#8230; Then sometime then or shortly after we&#8217;ll start moving into the house&#8230; I&#8217;m glad we went to Hawaii when we did. It will be a long time before I can afford another trip like that &#8211; and while the rest of the chaos is going on, at least I know the place now and can go there in my mind when I need to escape. <img src='http://theworkingmom.net/twm_wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<description><![CDATA[The last month has been a whirlwind. We&#8217;re in California now, but I&#8217;m not sure for how long. We made the decision to come here based on some things that have now apparently changed since we arrived. It&#8217;s a total mess. I hate to say it, but this was a horrible horrible mistake. It feels [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://theworkingmom.net/2010/11/08/a-beautiful-mess/' addthis:title='A Beautiful Mess '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The last month has been a whirlwind. We&#8217;re in California now, but I&#8217;m not sure for how long. We made the decision to come here based on some things that have now apparently changed since we arrived. It&#8217;s a total mess. I hate to say it, but this was a horrible horrible mistake. It feels like a long series of events happened that were never meant to be. I&#8217;m praying that there will come a time very soon that we can get back on track, my kids can get back on track &#8211; and we can all live our lives with minimal damage from all of this &#8211; both financially and emotionally. I keep trying to find the bright side and at the moment it&#8217;s not real clear. Aside from my getting to spend some quality time with my parents for the next 6 months or so &#8211; that&#8217;s about the only good that I think will have come from this.</p>
<p>We may still yet be headed to Portland, OR. I&#8217;m not sure. Our lives are completely up in the air, but I&#8217;m done destroying my kids academic year. We won&#8217;t make any more changes in their lives until the end of the school year. Then I&#8217;ll work on righting the wrongs. Until then we have to live with the mess we made.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[This time next week, I will have started an entirely new phase in my life. At least that&#8217;s the way it feels. Everything will be different than it was before. I&#8217;m definitely ready for some &#8220;different.&#8221; When we moved here about 5-1/2 years ago, I always knew this was a temporary arrangement. I never intended [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://theworkingmom.net/2010/10/16/reflections/' addthis:title='Reflections '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This time next week, I will have started an entirely new phase in my life. At least that&#8217;s the way it feels. Everything will be different than it was before. I&#8217;m definitely ready for some &#8220;different.&#8221;</p>
<p>When we moved here about 5-1/2 years ago, I always knew this was a temporary arrangement. I never intended to stay in Utah forever. When people asked me what I thought about living here, my canned response was &#8220;It works for us for now.&#8221; Over the past year, it&#8217;s been more and more clear that it was working less and less for us on so many levels.</p>
<p>I am not a very religious person, and I don&#8217;t believe in &#8220;God&#8221; per se, but the way things have been going, I feel that what we are doing is following a path that &#8220;something&#8221; laid out for us. Everything has fallen into place, like it was always meant to be. Like it was planned out that way long before the thoughts came to me. It&#8217;s a weird fence to be sitting on when I really don&#8217;t &#8220;believe.&#8221; Either way, I&#8217;m just following the road as it goes along. The decisions were tough because of the doubt, but once they were made, everything came together.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been looking at houses out there, and I&#8217;ve found a few things that were close to what I would like, but not perfect. This of course makes me question everything, and lets doubt creep in &#8211; but I&#8217;m also trying to hold onto the belief that this is all happening exactly as it is supposed to and no matter how much I worry about it &#8211; it makes no difference. It will all fall into place at just the right time, and not a moment before. It&#8217;s true &#8211; if the perfect house came on the market now, it would not be good &#8211; because we are not there yet, and can not buy it. So I have this crazy hope that just when I need the house, it will be there. And that may be the first day we get there, or it may be a few months from now. But we won&#8217;t be &#8220;homeless&#8221; forever.</p>
<p>The other thing I&#8217;ve been thinking about is how we will survive the next while&#8230; Let me paint a picture for you: my parents house is relatively small. Well, it&#8217;s a perfect size for them: a retired couple that occasionally has a visitor. Not really designed to hold as many people as will be living there very soon. A 1500 (or 1400?) square foot, 3-bedroom house for 6 people. &#8220;Tight&#8221; doesn&#8217;t even begin to describe it. We&#8217;ll be loading up their garage with all the stuff we couldn&#8217;t put in storage. We&#8217;re converting their office into a bunk bed kids bedroom, and of course Sam and I will be taking over their guest bedroom.</p>
<p>When I described the situation to a client of mine, he said it sounded like the premise of a sitcom. I totally agree. I really feel like I need to document our life there, because at some point (probably not DURING) I&#8217;m going to look back on that time and laugh at how crazy it all was. At least I hope so.</p>
<p>But above everything else going on right now is this huge anticipation &#8211; that this isn&#8217;t &#8220;just another move.&#8221; This is just the beginning of something huge. That for the past 5-1/2 years we were in limbo &#8211; we were in the &#8220;waiting place.&#8221; And NOW finally, stuff is going to happen. What that &#8220;stuff&#8221; is&#8230; I really have no idea. But I think it&#8217;s going to be great!</p>
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